遇人不淑yù rén bù shūmarry a bad husband;suffer from one’s husband’s misfortune
? 有女仳離，條其嘯矣； 條其嘯矣，遇人之不淑矣。(《詩經(jīng)·王風(fēng)·中谷有蓷》) There is a woman forced to leave her husband,|Long-drawn are her groanings! |Long-drawn are her groanings! |She suffers from his misfortune. 遇人不淑yù rén bù shū淑：善良。遇到個(gè)不善良的人。be married to a bad husband, suffer from one’s husband’s misfortune |